When we were younger when you did something embarrassing it usually was forgotten at some point because only the ones that were there to witness it had seen it. But in our day and age we can just screenshot it and show it to anyone since you were so considerate to do it publicly on facebook.
As a man I'd rather do it my way than any other way. We don't need instruction manuals we know how it's done. So if you're in a relationship with a man and you need something done a certain way, make sure we understand you.